Not really sure to whom the "Oops" should be credited. It could go directly to me or it could go to Edmund Szoka, Archbishop of Detroit.
Or, maybe, just to be honest and fair, we each deserve an "Oops" for this one.
This event occurred while I was still pastor at Precious Blood Parish, a fine parish in a stunning neighborhood in the City of Detroit. By the time I became pastor, the parish numbers were in serious decline. Other faith communities were doing a far better job at evangelization and that, together with newly arrived residents who had other faith traditions, brought about the decline that made Precious Blood actually a rather small faith community.
Although small in number, there was a strength, a dynamism in the members. There was a vibrant commitment to upholding the neighborhood and to sustaining the Catholic presence.
And somewhere in this timeframe I became the vicar for the area.
Which meant regular meetings on an Archdiocesan level along with local, vicariate and parish meetings and chores and such.
The Archdiocesan vicars' meetings regularly included the presence of the Archbishop, at that time Edmund Szoka.
And that is when those "Opps" occurred.
And I suggest that the good Archbishop started it and even asked for it.
He brought up an item about Archdiocesan support for parishes in the City of Detroit.
Now, truth be told, from the days of Archbishop John Dearden, there had been regular, generous financial support from the top down to the local parish communities. Funding was there for many worthy purposes.
That being said, at this particular vicars' meeting Archbishop Szoka brought up the concern that he was hearing that City parishes were not well supported by the Archdiocese and by him, personally. This was proving concerning to him as he considered himself and the Archdiocese to be very generous.
He looked around the room. Then he spied me.
And then his "Opps" occurred.
"Ron," he called out. "You are a City pastor. Do you feel a lack of support/"
Should have never asked - at least not me.
I can tend to be honest. And that is exactly what happened, which was probably my "Opps" moment.
I can't recall my exact words but I do know this. I spoke out before the assembled vicars and our Archbishop.
I acknowledged that, indeed, financial support is available.
But, I dared to add.
We never see you!
We need your visible, physical presence in our City parishes. We need you not just to be visiting those big, fancy suburban parishes. We need you standing, really, visibly with us. The money is appreciated but you are even more appreciated.
There was a silence in the room.
Listening closely, one just might have heard Edmund Szoka muttering under his breath, "Opps!"
But he asked!
And I answered.
And a couple of days later I got a chance for a very real "Opps" of my own.
A phone call came from that sacred Downtown office.
And I was informed that the Archbishop would be coming to Precious Blood for Mass on the very next Sunday.
No time to fancy things up or get out any pomp.
A true pastoral visit. No real advance warning or preparation time. He was coming to stand at the altar with the people and afterwards meet with and talk to them. I asked for it. And I got it!
"Opps!"
But all in all those turned out to be good "Opps!""
The Pastor of the Church of Detroit got to mingle with some of that Church, a segment far too often taken for granted. It was a good time, a holy moment.
And it was not his last visit with us.
And it is certainly among the many "opps" in my life, one that I continue to treasure.
More is certainly to come!